Ahhh...it's a bitter pill to swallow, but that's the way it is given the fact that our little planet is populated by billions of people with different tastes, perspectives, values, and means of communicating all the above. When I visit schools and speak with students about their writing, I often conduct a little experiment. I'll ask those students who love Harry Potter to raise their hands. Many do. I'll then ask those students who despise Harry Potter to raise their hands. Alas for Ms. Rowling, many hands go into the air. Now JK Rowling one of the most popular, successful authors of all time and yet here we are in a school auditorium with many students saying they don't like her books. Should Rowling storm off to her room, slam the door, and vow never to write again because some readers don't like her work? Of course not. And neither should you.
So now that you're actually willing to share your work, I'd encourage you to share it with people who will really take the time to read it and react. Instead of simply asking your reader whether or not they "liked it", enable them to make more constructive criticism. You can do this by having them comment on specific aspects of the story, such as character development, the plot, the use of language, etc. Specifically, ask them how you can improve these areas. By phrasing the request in this way, you empower the person who is giving you feedback (by letting them know you value their input and that it's okay to offer suggestions) and you have given them specific tasks rather than a general request that can be fulfilled with a generic compliment. Little tweaks like these can make all the difference when it comes to feedback. Some specific areas in which you might invite comments and suggestions are:
- The overall concept
- Plot development
- Pacing
- Character development
- Language and writing style
The final tip when it comes to feedback is that you ultimately decide what should be done with it. You're the artist. Just because someone makes a suggestion, does not mean you're obligated to follow it. Some suggestions are great, while others will miss the mark. You may even choose to discard some outstanding suggestions because they would change the tone or direction of your work. Ultimately, some things are simply a matter of taste and you'll have to make a call. The goal is to solicit good feedback that will improve your work and stimulate your growth as a writer and artist. The goal is not to try and please everybody - critic or reader. If you embrace feedback as an important part of the creative process, you'll become a much better writer or artist in a much shorter period of time. I promise!